Young Men Are (Quietly) Giving Up...Here’s Why!

Steven Bartlett hosts an urgent discussion on the state of young men today, joined by Scott Galloway from NYU Stern and Logan Ury from Hinge. The conversation centers on the recently published Lost Boys Report, which documents a troubling trend of young men withdrawing from education, relationships, and social engagement. The episode explores multiple factors contributing to this crisis. Fatherless homes are identified as a significant factor, with millions of boys growing up without paternal guidance or role models. The education system is examined critically, with statistics showing boys falling behind girls academically and socially, raising questions about whether schools are adequately serving male students. The absence of male role models extends beyond the home into broader society, where traditional mentorship structures have eroded. Dating presents another challenge for young men. Logan Ury discusses how the rules of courtship have fundamentally changed, leaving many young men confused about how to approach women respectfully in the post-MeToo era. The conversation reveals that many teenagers no longer know how to ask someone out in person, relying instead on digital communication. Statistics show concerning trends in dating success and romantic relationships among young men. The hosts explore whether women truly want emotionally attuned men or if conflicting signals create confusion. They discuss dating standards, relationship science, and how successful women often struggle to find partners. A particularly critical issue addressed is pornography consumption among young boys. Both guests emphasize how early exposure to pornography shapes unrealistic expectations about sexuality and relationships, ultimately damaging young men's ability to form genuine connections. Scott Galloway discusses his approaches to helping men overcome pornography addiction. The episode examines how identity has become too closely tied to financial success for men, whereas women have developed more diverse sources of self-worth. The conversation touches on the rise of feminism and questions about political approaches to winning back young male voters. Practical solutions are explored, including the value of men's groups and supportive friend circles for emotional development. Steve shares his own experiences with a supportive group of friends, highlighting how intentional community can serve as a healing force. The hosts provide advice for parents raising young boys, discussing what both Scott and Steve had to unlearn about traditional masculinity. The episode concludes with a direct message to the lost boys themselves, emphasizing that their struggles are real, that help is available, and that change is possible.